Al 18 jaar lang geeft de column Modern Love lezers van de New York Times een kijkje in de ingewikkelde liefdeslevens van echte mensen. Sinds de start is de column uitgegroeid tot een tv-programma, drie boeken en een podcast.
Elke week brengt gastheer Anna Martin je verhalen en gesprekken over liefde in al zijn glorieuze varianten, domme valkuilen en levensveranderende momenten. Elke woensdag nieuwe afleveringen.

For 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast.
Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday.
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Growing up, Jamie Shandro was interested in science, while her younger brother, Tim, liked art. When they were in their twenties, they both landed in Seattle: Jamie for medical school and Tim for art school. They were closer than ever. But as Jamie was finishing up a rotation in psychiatry, Tim started behaving strangely.
In this episode of Modern Love, Jamie tells the story of the frightening onset of her little brother’s mental illness and the parts of his personality and creativity that remain. Plus, she talks about how helping Tim has shaped her, as a person, and a doctor.
This episode is adapted from Jamie Shandro’s 2025 essay My Brother Has Schizophrenia. This Is How I Love Him.
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